Being 'seen' by a T is an absolute must. To me, it's about mutual understanding. TishaBuv makes a great point, which I will carry with me into session on Thursday. When I first met R, she offered reassurance when she said three words...'I'm with you'. Until I heard it, I didn't realise how much I needed it. I now feel that I can trust her, but I have similar feelings to Tish in that I can't actually express the things that are bothering me most.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
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