bebop,

you are absolutely right, I know you are. Its just hard not to get clouded when you have had so many bad relationships all in a row.

I need to remind myself of the few GREAT relationships I have had with men.

Perhaps some men can answer my thread to assure me that they are not all irresponsible, careless jerks?

PLEASE NOTE I am not trying to generalize, because I KNOW not all men are like this. I am just caught up in bitterness at the moment and finding it hard to point out good men in my life.

Maybe I need more good male friends?