I know this will probably sound stupid, but my T just being there when I'm struggling is enough to give me comfort. When I have a listening ear and know I won't be judged, I not only have comfort, but I also have hope that everything will be okay. That said, there isn't anything in particular that my T will do to give me comfort. She might be able to say "you're not the only one", and that kind of helps.

Sorry for being so lame.

I don't have any advice, but I hope you can find the comfort you seek.