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Old Feb 21, 2017, 07:39 AM
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Originally Posted by _Mouse View Post
I think his giving your slot away was wrong.
By emailing you were clearly acting Somerby out. He could have said "this needs to be talked about in session" .
Pushing T away is all part of attachment work.
He clearly hasn't got that.
Agreed. The handful of times I've canceled out of emotion, my T has said something like "That's your choice. I think you need to be here, so I will be here in case you change your mind."

I would talk to you T about him/her giving your spot away. That sounds almost spiteful on their part. They will probably say it's a financial thing.
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