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Originally Posted by Parva
Because for most people with severe attachment issues, family is not a source of support or comfort. And since we didn't 'learn' how to accept or feel support or comfort as kids, it's impossible to feel that from friends. Like asking someone to speak Latin. The T and therapeutic process is partly about using the therapeutic relationship to re-learn attachment, i.e., how it feels when it's there, trust, etc...
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I realize that. It was a rhetorical question -- a question meant for thought and introspection.