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Old Feb 21, 2017, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by DadFMF View Post
She had 11 months. While I was gone, I was willing to look over all of that. I'm home now, if she has time to hang out and talk with this guy, she could atleast do marriage counseling or talk to me to try to come up with a solution. She wants her cake and eat it too while I'm sitting at my house depressed cause I want my family back.
This is How I feel DadFMF - She wants her cake & to eat it too. No one should expect another to wait on sidelines until things work out for them.

She uses her time in other areas - her friends are priority, otherwise, as you mentioned the priority would be marriage counselling.

As sad as this is, I am glad that you can see it for what it is, so that you can move on. It is possible that that things may change, but right NOW, she is 'on another beat'. Look after yourself.
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