I dunno - sometimes i get weirded out by it. I felt she appologised for things and then i'd have to say "it's ok." maybe it was ok , maybe it wasn't. but i didn't like to say "it's ok" because i feel like i've been saying it all my life for things that aren't ok and that this is just more conditioning for me to continue. i never told her that.
tho on my last session with her, she said some hurtful things. i finally wrote her an email saying i was recovering from my ***** kicking. She wrote back that she was sorry I felt it was an ***** kicking, but she was glad I told her.
I never told my former T when she hurt me. I know a child alter got pretty mad at her one day, but that was it. I don't thing she ever said sorry for it.
kiya