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Maybe a little dwelling on his not so nice qualities will help you appreciate that you aren't his wife!

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Perfectly said alexandra.... sums up what others seem to think too.... including me.

Be careful there Okie. You know in your head what choices you want to make... be careful to protect your emotions from taking a path your head can't support.

I have to admit to some sisterly concern for you right now Okie. With arms enveloping you with Love's fulness to empower you I'd like to encourage you to stay true to your authentic self.

If I felt vulnerable in a situation like you are in I think I'd arrange to find another partner if that were an option. I'd consider verbalizing boundaries with him too if he persisted. For sure I'd step up the body language to let him know non-verbally where your boundries are. I'd nip this in the bud one way or another as fast as I could. He's engaging you in inappropriate intimacy pure and simple.

Really attractive married men are men like 50guy here.... the ones' who respect their wives and value their families. The ones' you can flirt with in front of their wives cuz its not about sex and intimacy. Guys like your partner there are laughable if they weren't so distructive and selfish and pitiful.

Sorry.... let myself vent there for a second... sensitive subject for me I guess. I get frustrated with guys like him. They are so distructive to our social fabric. Life is tough enough... getting on is tough enough without guys like this abusing their priveleges. I'd snip his peepee off and staple his mouth shut if I could. OMG... did I just say that!!!

Not literally of course but if he was my brother.... well I'd sure give him a piece of my mind. His overall lack of respect for all women, his wife, you and all the other women he turns his charms onto. It says volumes about his lack of character.

Having just berated your partner... I guess I shall now commit to praying for him and his family.... and others he impacts with his behaviours....

Tell him to go talk to his male buddies, his pastor.... whomever... just not you. Set some office talk boundaries or find a new partner. See him for who he is, guide him to some help and get the hell out of the way!!!

Take care....