I think in some ways that is similar to me too. I work hard, had a good education and have a successful career, know how to handle my life (generally) and get on with people. But I have had very few close relationships, and for quite a lot of my life avoided parties and things like that.
It's sad that there was an aspect missing from my life before, but it's much better now. I actually enjoy going to parties now! Therapy has really helped with that part of my life.