Thanks for all of the help. I feel like I am in a good spot. I met with my counselor today too. She kind of echoed some of the stuff... This girl displays an odd, controlling, stalker-ish quality. I distance myself, she pushes her way back in. The emphasis being on her being too immature to be in a relationship, but wants to control my interactions and needs to know where and what I am doing.

She hit home on what I struggle with..... lack of confidence, too forgiving sometimes, so I get myself into situations. Most of the time, it is not an issue. Most people are not going to take advantage of somebody.... this one is not most times. She did emphasize that I tend to try to seek an answer when things go weird. I don't let it go, I have to understand why something went wrong so I can close the door on it. Very true. She emphasized on this particular case though, as odd as this girl is, there likely won't be a final answer on what happened and that I need to distance myself, be extremely clear that I no longer have any interest in a friendship or communication with her and accept that she was weird.

But, overall, I am in a much better place.. I deserve better.