I'm a licensed insurance producer for the state of new Jersey or at least I have temp license until my finger print results come back so I can get my permanent. since your daughter is young, I suggest you ask the judge to have him open an insurance policy that and have him name you as the irrevocable beneficiary (this means he can not close the policy without your consent and he will have to continue to make the premium payments unless you say he can stop) this way your able to fully know you and your daughter will be taken care of until she becomes a legal adult.