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Old Feb 22, 2017, 07:16 PM
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Maybe it's some kind of push-pull dynamic. You pull someone close--but then emotional closeness feels threatening or you fear you will be let down. So you push them away. It's pretty common.
This was my pattern at one time, as well. It's actually still my pattern within sessions, but from one session to the next I can be more consistent.
Thanks for this!
AnxiousGirl