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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia
You wrote about romantic partner but how is your life in terms of friends, rainbow? Do you have some close, rewarding friendships? If not, would it help to actively look for some, so perhaps the relationship with T would not carry all the weight of your needs?
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I have some very close friends so T does NOT carry all the weight of my needs. It's different with my T because of the attachment issues and still wanting unconditional love and whatever I missed as an infant and child. My friends are wonderful and I can exchange I love yous with them, but I still have that yearning for T or for my mother or whomever T represents. I just have to accept reality I guess.