This is interesting - I've gone for not thinking straight. I nearly terminated them both back in October when my trauma got triggered really badly. But , they both did the thing I don't usually get and responded appropriately and maturely to what had happened and the part they played in it. And much fruit came from this as I found out it CAN be done , I DESERVED that sort of consideration and respect , it wasn't me and there's something wrong with all the people who didn't do it. When a T doesn't do this ( and we have seen HOW many times that some of them don't ? - then the client can feel the joke is on them and therapy is a joke. There is a positive side to the joker ( or the fool as he is in Tarot ) so I'm glad I didn't terminate and I'm happy with where my therapy is going with them both and I have used the jokers from a card deck during some work with regular T.