All I can say is, WOW! Finally someone like me!! I recently discovered the proper term for myself is "heteroromantic asexual". Sex is a BIG trigger for me and usually it's not worth it! When it's over, I always want to climb in a hot shower, hug my knees, rock back and forth and think about where my life went so wrong...

I've struggled with this A LOT lately. Feels like I don't belong anywhere. All this hoopla about LGBTQI rights, which is great but... Where do I fit in?? Someday I'd like a relationship with a man but, if I never had sex again I'd be thrilled! I can't handle the sights, sounds, smells, all of it. Anything that reminds me of a creepy porno is an instant trigger. I've decided I just don't need sex, and any man who can't understand that (or keeps pressuring me) is just not worth it!!! I'm so tired of men thinking that their genitalia is going to magically cure me. I'm not that naive anymore, I don't buy into all that.

Anyway, nothing useful to contribute. Just thought I'd say: You are not alone!!! Keep your head up, okay?