My husband and I have no emotional connect. We don't get each other.Whenever I have a problem and I discuss with him,he is critical of me.He may help me if I ask him to do something. But he won't console me or anything.I feel so alone in life. I have tried telling him this but nothing changes and he doesn't believe in therapy .

In my mind,I am so confused about if it is a bad marriage. If we go to a restaurant,we have nothing to discuss. We just order food and sit there. It is all so awkward. Is this normal??