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Originally Posted by DDWest
My daughter's ex walked out on her 3 yrs ago with no warning. My grandson was 2 yr old at the time. He is in the music business, so visitations were very erratic. Each time the child would scream going with him and just got worse astime went by. He is now almost 5 and tells anyone that will listen he hates his father. My daughter has talked him into just seeing his dad for a couple hrs maybe once a month. About a month ago we were eating lunch out, I'm extremely close with him and spend a minimum of 2-3 days a week with him. I was talking to him and told him that it is ok for him to tell me if anyone hurts him and I would make sure that someone would never hurt him again and he asked me "would you get a knife and stab my dad?" I was so shocked when he said it and said I can't stab people, that could kill someone and he said that's what I want. I don't know how to handle this and would appreciate any feed back on this. Thank You All So Much
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Hi,
It is a sad case when a child loses one of the parent, however losing the mother is the greatest problem and with help and suppor yourg randson should be OK.
Onother problem might be that a two year old child is far more intelligent than some people think and talking ill about your daughters boyfriend (his father) in hearing distance of him might have caused the animousity.
It may be nicer and safer if your daughter accompanies your son when he visits.