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Old Feb 23, 2017, 08:44 PM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by bluebicycle View Post
Sorry your son is struggling so much! It's definitely a very difficult situation.

Do you think once a month is adequate enough for your son? You said that he saw maternity T once a week, and you mentioned that he has anxiety, etc. issues that need to be addressed. So I'm wondering if this new T could help out if she saw him more frequently, especially since you said, "He has a T but I feel like he doesn't have a T".

The other thing is: new T hasn't gotten to know either of your children well enough, and I don't think she'll really get to know them if she sees them once a month. Will they be comfortable opening up to someone they just met? (IDK. Just a random thought of mine.)

I don't know if you're able to have him see new T more often or not, but I think him seeing new T more often could be very useful for both you *and* your son in the long run. Then maybe new T could have some ideas for you while you wait for maternity T to come back.
I'm thinking that his migraines were due to anxiety. He was able to play video games and his headaches didn't seem to be present then. he's still asking to see a nutritionist as well because he doesn't think he's eating right.

Maternity T was trying to wean him off and I can't say that it was successful. I think if anything that's when his migraines started now to think of it. Prior to that he's never had migraines. I think maternity T had mentioned that the T they would be seeing momentarily would only be there to not really work on anything but to be there if they need to discuss something. I see what you're saying and he would probably benefit from seeing her more often. He seems to have things to discuss.

I haven't touched base about it with new T because she's not in place yet and maternity T is working on temporary closure until she returns. That's what it seems to be.