Nothing is wrong with the physicl attraction. Something is very wrong with the man and his bad mouthing his wife.

I wonder how often he does it and if it is true. Even if it is true about his wife he dosen't have to bad mouth her. It takes 2 to have a disagreement. I see this kind of stuff all the time with men on the prowl. They fault the wife and sniff around women. He may have a very nice wife but, is looking for some action on the side, well he dosen't have to degrade his wife in the process.

Honesty counts. If he is looking for action on the side he needs to be upfront about it and not bash his wife while trying to score.

Just my opinion.