Reflect on your past friendships. How have you been with friends? Do you know how to be a friend?

I know you've mentioned one guy you were intimate with. Was he a friend? How did that go?

Do you not connect at all? Do you connect with friends, but have a falling out quickly?

Relationships with men (love) is very similar to any friendship.

Looking at your past patterns is a good place to start thinking about what is working and what needs to improve.