As kids, we had no where to go. Parks, roof tops of hotels, golf courses, the beach at night. I came home a lot with sand in my underwear and grass stains! Loved it. Kinda loved the idea that others may have seen us, too. Even loved the danger of getting caught. Loved the fresh air and exposure. I am so lucky I didn't end up dead.

Once, my h and I went to a sex club where we watched other people doing it. I felt like a creep. Didn't like that at all. We had a fight there. That was awful.

If you are into doing that, approach new bf's with it after the relationship is solid. I think most guys love a little kink and variety, too. They'd be thrilled you're a little bit freaky. But not too freaky, or it scares them off.