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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I can relate to worrying that getting me off is too physically demanding and time consuming. So i usually ask for a toy to take the pressure off both of us.
There is a feeling of vulnerability with it that really bothers me deep down. My struggle in my marriage has a lot to do with this.
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I tell myself "he wouldn't be doing this unless he wanted to" (and feel like the acceptance of gifts and gestures as they are, with no request for modifications is loving) and concentrate on relaxing/taking deep breaths. I do understand why it is hard to do. <<hugs>>
PS Of course, I feel more confident about sex when I recently bathed!