Dear Fuzzy and other friends here,
I wanted to give you an update about my situation, as you were worried about me.
Without giving me any head-up, my nieces and nephew hired a lawyer to deal with my brother and sell the house my brother and I inhabit. The lawyer called my brother and my brother was upset at me because he thought I requested my nieces and nephew to do that. It took me for surprise and I think he understood I did not know about this measure taken by our family members. However, you never know, later my brother's paranoia can push him towards a different direction.
In any event, I am not going to intervene and let him to deal with my nieces and nephew. I know my brother will ask me to act on his favor (unbelievably, despite he does bad things to me often, he expects me to side myself on his behalf). I will tell him I will stay neutral.
If my nieces and nephew get the court to rule we need to sell the house, every one will get his/her share. I will be able to buy a small house for me and my pets. Before that, I bet it will be a mess because my brother does not understand reciprocity or that not only him but the other people have rights, as well. Hopefully I will get a good psychiatrist that will help me to cope with the difficult times ahead.
I will keep you posted
Hope you understand my English
Thank you for being there
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