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Feb 25, 2017, 10:10 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Home
Posts: 8,406
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Quote:
Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I am now saying I will go no contact. But history proves that probably won't stick.
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It can be hard to maintain the no contact boundary because they will try as hard as they can to drag you back into it. She will send your sisters and aunt and father as flying monkeys to do her dirty work of making you feel guilty. To truly go no contact, you have to maintain with them that you don't want to hear messages from your mother or about what she says or does. Otherwise they continue to be conduits to her.
You can do it. It's for your own health and well being.
Seesaw
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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