Wrapping up lose ends....

Some of us getting out of a marriage that has been abusive whether intentional or not, its feeling like a final blessing. I left 10 years ago...moved 2100 miles away & basically walked away from almost everything I had accumulated for 33 years. I didnt have the $ to finish filing for the divorce & he didnt either but he also claimed divorce would make him look like a loser.(hmmm think 10 years & my not coming back didnt look the same?)

Anyway..10 years later....I am finally working on tying up all lose ends & what a relief its feeling like.

I will probably be going back to get the things of mine I left. Daughter thinks it will all still be there.. .I wonder???? But he is so dysfunctional its hard to say though he got the initial list my lawyer put together.

I do dred going back & seeing him again because I have healed so much. Maybe that will help in dealing with him though he is the same dysfunctional person I left. It will take a lot of strength but my focus will be on getting my horse here also so that will help too.