What do you do when you have a big crush on someone OTHER than your significant other? I still want to stay married and I don't want to tell my husband, but I love spending time with my crush, who is one of my best friends (it just gradually evolved into a crush, no intentions to act out on my feelings, either).
What do I do? Stop spending time with my friend? Keep acting like everything is normal and tell nobody about my feelings?
My intuition is to just keep acting like everything is normal, just be friends like normal, and the feelings will pass. What do you think?
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Meds: Lithium (reducing), Trileptal, Latuda, Risperdal, Klonopin and Xanax PRN
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