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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
How far does the commandment "Honor thy father and mother" go?
Do you let them drain you financially? Emotionally? Both? Even when they are abusive?
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NO, YOU DO NOT!
One of the worst beatings I ever got was telling my female parental unit that the Bible also says to NOT provoke your children to anger! (Colossians 3:21).
She was the queen of quoting the bible and using the "word of God" as an excuse to justify her abuses of me, so I thought I'd drop a little knowledge on her and evidently it hit a raw nerve!
Once I got away from these evil people, found my own mind and came to realize how vile and inhumane their treatment of me had been, I left them to their own misery, and never looked back ...
I hope you can do the same, and not feel overly guilty about having to let them go for your own physical, emotional and spiritual well-being!
I still wrestle with whether or not I believe in God, but I do think that if there is one, he/she/it/we/they won't judge us too harshly for deciding to love and care enough about ourselves to not allow another human being - no matter their relation - to continue to maltreat us!
Sincerely,
Pflower!