And look at my h's role in this whole thing with my parents. It was the money HE earned that they weaseled out of us! Look how he says and does nothing!

Not only does he not defend me, he doesn't even defend himself!

How would a normal son in law feel? What would he do?

Now, if I went and said that to my h, suddenly he would start trying to say and do something with my parents. Like it always has to be all my push, all my idea, then he becomes an imbecile, overly aggressive and stupid, just to show he has balls.