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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
And look at my h's role in this whole thing with my parents. It was the money HE earned that they weaseled out of us! Look how he says and does nothing!
Not only does he not defend me, he doesn't even defend himself!
How would a normal son in law feel? What would he do?
Now, if I went and said that to my h, suddenly he would start trying to say and do something with my parents. Like it always has to be all my push, all my idea, then he becomes an imbecile, overly aggressive and stupid, just to show he has balls.
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I would not call my H normal but he always saw the abuse from my family before I saw it. He refuses to see them/ talk to them. Currently he feels the least animosity toward my sister and the most towards my brother. I even have an uncle/cousins that constantly seem to want me to leave him. The ill will started before my attempt but turned into "he is the problem you need to divorce him" when I attempted. Because of the situation, I have gone for years at a time without seeing anyone in my family. I still miss the mountains and deserts in my home state.