I wish I had some wise words... my thoughts aren't translating into words. There are many horrible cruel people in this world it's true, and I think you're right, most if not all people have lied at some time (or are always brutally "honest" ... there's an old saying about that one )

I often feel like Papa Bear's family don't value me - why would they, the "family" of origin didn't and don't

Thinking of you