Hi, so I'm 16 and I've been dating this guy, I've known for him for two years, for five months.. I'm just now experiencing a challenge or many conflicting thoughts.. first off: he's planning his entire future around me I am his "world" and he's seriously considering moving in with me and marrying me. I constantly bring up my priorities and college and his need to be true to himself and following his own path but he even told my best friend these plans.. secondly: he has no respect for women whatsoever and I think he's just in it because I'm a pushover and have a hard time saying no and even when I do he doesn't listen. He crosses boundaries and ignores my values but my biggest problem is he either has a serious mental illness or he's just that devoutly in love with me. And finally: I know this may come off as rude but I am forced to Live off of high educational standards which means all As and Bs no exceptions. I spend hours working on homework and projects and he doesn't even try.. he's always out doing something or fixing something and is to my knowledge most likely failing one of his classes. He constantly gives me crap for working hard and complains about me not talking to him (mind you I just had major surgery two months ago and I'm working on school in my home). Thus getting me in trouble. I don't think I can stand this much longer, do you have any advice?