I'm not sure if my father used to deliberately perv on me or not. A few years ago i was hell bent on writing a memoir of sorts. I remember going swimming with my father who wasn't together with my mum and he always used to insist on using the double changing room, and i was getting too old to be doing so and i think he might have been doing some perverted voyeurism. He had never had a steady partner since my mum, or re married or anything. I just had to type my thoughts out , and hopefully I'm not opening another can of worms......