I "tested" my ex-T on many occasions, but never to the point where I would ask something that I knew would result in the answer "no". I think there may have been times when I was going through the maternal transference phase of my therapy with her where I wanted her to direct me in a way. Sort of like: "No, Jersey you can't do that." But that was in the early stages of therapy and like I mentioned, during the maternal transference phase. I was emotionally immature. I'm very different now and would not have an issue telling a therapist to F off. (Or anybody else)