Oh my gosh! Relationships over time change, for goodness sake. I am in disagreement with this "moving on" because things aren't this or that. A relationship, for me, requires trust, respect and safety. Part of the "safety" part is knowing you can be changing at different levels and you will wait for your lover to catch up, or he will wait for you. This is so fundamental that I am taken aback by others who think only in the "now."

I wish you the best. Times with our beloved aren't always interesting. Building a relationship for the long term is!