Sometimes our gut feelings tell us what our logical mind doesnt want to hear. I dont have BPD so I have learned that my gut feelings of something not being ok are USUALLY RIGHT & am learning to listen to that voice because it has been proved right more times than not. Sometimes you need to listen to the gut feelings. I didnt to begin with because of the dysfunctionsl people I lived around. I would logic away my gut feel. Then I realized just how bad the dysfunction was & just because it was NORMAL in a dysfunctional life, it was anything but normal in a functional life....& i was struggling with my normalness surrounded by dysfunction that kept telling me it was normal....yea, only normal in a dysfunctional persons life.

In other words....ANALYZE YIUR CONCERNS using your wise mind.