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Old Feb 26, 2017, 06:07 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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Why can't I just accept what he says at face value?
Because of this:

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major divorce inducing fight where he said things. Unspeakable things that he apologized for and swept under the rug. I have not recovered.
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He tells me he loves me everyday. Shows me most days.
But what is he showing you when it is not "most days"? Is he showing you behavior such as:

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hubby acting shady, not coming home, not answering my calls or text.
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The last fight just shook me up so bad I'm confused.


Of course you are confused: His mixed messages are massively confusing and disorienting.



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I could just be having BPD moments here.
I doubt that given what you say about his behavior.

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Why do you suppose there is no sex right now?

Thanks for this!
eskielover