Our sexuality is an important part of who we are. Yes, it is hard to talk about with our therapists. I struggle with this myself. But when I have found the courage to talk about sex, it's often not half as painful as I imagined it to be. I can tell my t is very comfortable with the subject matter, and that in turn, makes me comfortable sharing more. Try baby steps. Or ask an open ended question and let you therapist help you, for instance, "I have a hard time talking about sex, but I feel it's important to discuss, can you help me?" Good Luck. You'll never regret sharing something wiht your therapist.
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