One of my 4 sibs knows i SI. She is sort of OK with it, depending on her mood. Sometimes she tries to help and sometimes I get called a drama queen.

I'm the youngest by a bunch (8 to 13 years) and I feel left out a lot. My mom tends to harass the others for me, but mostly, if I don't want to go, I just say no and don't feel like I have to tell them why.

Dunno if that helps any.