The objective reason of can you handle dating a person with children needs to answered by you. I would try to judge less, but also knowing what you can deal with is extremely important. If you can, don't lead on. Most of us out here aren't in need of a man to tell the children what to do or need a daddy. Be certain, don't take it for granted and if she can't express herself then move on if you are that type with words on the board she needs to be kind of smart as well.