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Old Feb 27, 2017, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark View Post
Thank you. I know it's hard to understand what went down without knowing what was said in the conversation or the history between us. I am a chronic doormat and I really want a solid friendship where my friends have no hidden motives. I expect and see that with E J and a rekindling of a friendship with A (which had always been pleasant, no falling out) and I expected that with K and was shocked when she turned on a dime and lashed out at me for my political choices.

And you're right, for those who made this point, that I simply DO NOT understand how intense politics can be and how strongly people feel about it. I simply do not understand why people lose friendships over this, even after seeing how upset K was when she forced it out of me and lashed out at me when that is the complete opposite of how I knew and viewed her. I had no idea she was political at all, so much to lose a friendship over it. Maybe I am the blind sheep after all.
It is sad, overall, when people can't overcome differences and understand each other.
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Thanks for this!
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