For some reason it takes me a while for significant things to process in my mind and react to them.fo instance when my mom passed away I din't cry at all then years later it hits me and I occasionally burst into tears.

another one that surprises is when I gave a number to a work college who works different department from me that I was interested in.He didn't call/text but gave a lame excuse as to why he didn't and blew me off.It didn't faze me at that time while he was till working the same shifts from mine.He subsequently got a different position and started working opposite shifts from me so we don't see ach other anymore.Now months later,I feel very embarrassed about the whole thing to a point where I don't think I can make eye contact if I were to run into him

Is this normal?