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Originally Posted by Terish
nothing changes if nothing changes,so if you want anything to change then you gotta do something about it,nothings going to change until you do something different.So find a way to do it tomorrow don't let yourself find excuses and miss the chance to.
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I couldn't agree more with this. Sometime we have to force ourselves to do things because that is what is required. Tomorrow I have to find a way to force us to talk about the abuse, because it is necessary in order to get funded therapy. We have very strong don't talk rules about some parts of the abuse, and they are challenging to bypass. But we have to. Otherwise no therapy for us. We cannot afford it without the funding, so tomorrow we have to push through and force us to talk.
Just like you have to find a way to communicate with your T. Unfortunately no one else can do that for you. Whatever barriers you have to communicating with her, YOU need to find a way around them.
And you can.