so sorry to hear of your losses........isn't it odd that whether we really loved someone or maybe didn't like others very much.....when they are gone....we feel the loss.........its very normal to have the dreams you are having.....and please don't worry about any bad feelings about things you did or did not do for your aunt......once they pass to"the other side"....all is forgiven.....at least that is my belief......take care.......things will get better...julia