You need to tell hubby NO and that NO means NO.Never be forced into sex!

Learn to be assertive,it will help you to be assertive with the people who disrespect you also.
I have been mentally ill I am certain of that but I am equally certain my mental illness was caused by years of suffering verbal,emotional and psychological abuse and some physical neglect,as well as general neglect of my needs since I was five years old.

If there is a power struggle going on in a relationship power struggles are all about who has the control,people who need the control are the problem especially if it is because they are possessive and controlling.Sometime we want control in order to feel safe,this is healthy but if it is because we need to own someone that isn't good .

People who always put themselves first and disrespect your needs are selfish watch out they may be narcissists too and just using you for supply.

Being in a bad mood from being mistreated is a normal reaction,it make me low and angry to be mistreated.If your mum has mistreated you good on you for stopping talking to her.....you can say no to mistreatment and ultimately have no contact with people who mistreat you Tisha!