Occasionally she make recommendations that are wrong because she doesn't have all the facts. In her defense though it is usually because I am talking about something and sort of beat around the bush but think she knows what I mean.

I have done few self help workbooks in the past she knows I am capable of using them on my own. She looks online for them and buys them. Once I asked if she thought one on Ptsd would help. She thought it would so she gave me one. I was not ready at all. I tried it for a couple of days and was so triggered that I went into a depression.