Ex T apologized for their being tissues on the floor and explained that it was her dog. So I conversationally asked what she had. And she hesitated ( Yeah , I know self disclosure , but very innocuous in my opinion - it was a Labrador , there that didn't hurt did it ? ) This was the second session and the last , among the other things was ignoring her notes from the previous week and getting a sheet of paper with what she thought it all was on it and I could go on and on...EMDR T put a fan heater on the desk when I said I felt cold ( which was too much but he was trying to help ) and regular T I don't recall has ever done anything useless.