I was very bitter towards my ex husband and it was affecting my life in a very negative way for many years, and then this little old lady said to me that no matter what I do I cannot change him he is what he is and you have to accept that to be able to move on, I did and have and although you will hear me joke about the 'ex' it really is not with bitterness I can deal with him now regarding the children without my day being ruined.....I will still rant for a while but once its out I am over it.

Trish.