Thread: Is it me?????
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Old Nov 21, 2007, 12:34 PM
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jinnyann said:
I got upset with my son this morning over the way he spoke to me.
Hubby told me "right, you have to stop this now. Just stop getting angry and listen to people."

I felt victimised. Do they understand me? no. Does it help my hubby taking kids side all the time? no

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OK - as I read this post and reflected on my experience with this same matter I came up with two possible solution......

# 1

Your son maybe repeating the way he sees his father treat you - kids watch and learn from their parents, the good and the bad.

# 2

From their male POV your husband and son maybe trying to tell you that they NEED you to listen more to them when they talk and not respond all the time with your opinion (well,not right away).

What do YOU think? - (any truth in # 1 or 2)

And YES - you are right is it hard for them (males) to understand us (the female) as our minds and ways do not always see eye to eye with each other...... Sorry ((( hugs ))).