My husband has been divorced from his ex wife for 6 years, we have been married for 4. In those 4 years, his parents have separated from my husband. They are very close to his ex wife and even vacation with her. They no longer speak to my husband. We tried for about a year to stay in contact, invite them to dinner, told them we wanted a relationship with them, they declined. They cite their anger over my husband "cheating" on his ex wife by chatting online with women. He doesn't deny this, they can't let it go. They show up at his daughter's ballgames etc. and sit with his ex wife and never speak to him/us. Now, his 17 year old daughter is having trouble in relationships with boys, her past 3 boyfriends are telling her she is too needy and clingy and she continues to try and hang on long after they have told her to go away. My husband and I really feel she needs help and that she has witnessed her mother "hanging on" to her ex husbands parents and she is internalizing this( we have not told her this). She refuses to go to therapy. So here we sit. Humiliated and ex communicated from his ex and his parents with no help in sight for the child. Thoughts?