If I am looking at the original post, self-acceptance is something I have struggled with for a very long time. I have to say that individual therapy helped a lot, and the support of loved ones helped rather than hindered my self-recovery.

But for you it seems a bit different, maybe because I am bipolar? They way I got over a lot of my anguish is by treating myself. Do you have a job? Or money of your own? Buying stuff for yourself, like some aromatherapy, and things that make you feel good can bring you out of your funk. It has helped me a great deal. Buying myself a book, or a new dress always lifts my spirits. Maybe that's a way you can get help for your self-acceptance, by doing things for YOU that make you feel good.